My answer to your question.

Yes, I know and realize... by just about 2 months.

"Life is a set of sequential events.  It starts well before birth, and ends well after death.  Sometimes we can control the in-between by the choices we make.  Yet, the in-between will still happen." - CFWG

STOP!

Re-read that.

A bit of wisdom.  Somewhat poetic in a way!